{"id":2570,"date":"2022-07-05T11:01:25","date_gmt":"2022-07-05T11:01:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/?p=2570"},"modified":"2023-04-03T18:10:40","modified_gmt":"2023-04-03T12:40:40","slug":"a-happily-ever-after-is-within-your-reach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/a-happily-ever-after-is-within-your-reach\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0160\u0165astn\u011b a\u017e do smrti je na dosah!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201eJ\u00e1 to d\u011bl\u00e1m\u201c je snadn\u00e9, ale \u201ed\u011blat\u201c pozd\u011bji ve vztahu je to, co vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed stres. Jakmile l\u00edb\u00e1nky skon\u010d\u00ed, mnoho man\u017eelstv\u00ed se rozpadne pod t\u00edhou ka\u017edodenn\u00edch povinnost\u00ed. Spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot odhaluje aspekty \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00e9 byly d\u0159\u00edve skryt\u00e9, a tato d\u016fv\u011brnost vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 nechu\u0165 k druh\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku. Toto je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e1 doba pro man\u017eelstv\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9ho p\u00e1ru. Pokud jde o \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 man\u017eelstv\u00ed, nejde o to vyhnout se obt\u00ed\u017e\u00edm, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e o to, jak je zvl\u00e1dnout.<\/p>\n

Pokra\u010dujte ve \u010dten\u00ed a nau\u010dte se p\u011bt chov\u00e1n\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho p\u00e1ru, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017eete za\u010dlenit do sv\u00e9ho vztahu je\u0161t\u011b dnes.<\/p>\n

Nenechte se un\u00e9st sv\u00fdmi nad\u011bjemi<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edm nep\u0159\u00edtelem ka\u017ed\u00e9ho vztahu jsou nerealistick\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u017e abyste si u\u017e\u00edvali toho, co m\u00e1te, nut\u00ed v\u00e1s tou\u017eit po tom, co nem\u00e1te. Kdy\u017e se v man\u017eelstv\u00ed nenapln\u00ed na\u0161e o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, b\u00fdv\u00e1me zklaman\u00ed. P\u0159esto\u017ee je p\u0159irozen\u00e9 m\u00edt o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, je tak\u00e9 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 p\u0159ijmout realitu a p\u0159izp\u016fsobit se j\u00ed. Pokud jste \u010dasto zklam\u00e1ni, proto\u017ee va\u0161e o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed nejsou napln\u011bna, v\u00e1\u0161 man\u017eel bude tak\u00e9 na\u0161tvan\u00fd. V kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku by v\u00e1\u0161 vztah ovlivnil dominov\u00fd efekt.<\/p>\n

Podle Eli Finkela, psychologa a autora knihy \u201eMan\u017eelstv\u00ed \u201ev\u0161echno nebo nic\u201c, \u201eNajd\u011bte m\u00edsta, kde po\u017eadavky, kter\u00e9 na man\u017eelstv\u00ed kladete, jasn\u011b p\u0159evy\u0161uj\u00ed mno\u017estv\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee man\u017eelstv\u00ed skute\u010dn\u011b splnit. "Odstra\u0148te n\u011bkter\u00e1 b\u0159emena."<\/p>\n

Udr\u017eujte zdravou rovnov\u00e1hu mezi prac\u00ed s ostatn\u00edmi a vlastn\u00ed prac\u00ed<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I kdy\u017e d\u011blat v\u011bci s ostatn\u00edmi je skv\u011bl\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se sp\u0159\u00e1telit, n\u011bkter\u00e9 jedince to m\u016f\u017ee dr\u00e1\u017edit, pokud to d\u011blaj\u00ed po\u0159\u00e1d. Jak ji\u017e bylo \u0159e\u010deno, b\u00fdt del\u0161\u00ed dobu pry\u010d je spolehliv\u00fd recept na katastrofu. Vyberte bod n\u011bkde uprost\u0159ed. Nechte si p\u00e1r dn\u00ed volna pro sebe, ale nezapome\u0148te se zapojit do v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1te oba r\u00e1di. V\u011bnujte sv\u016fj \u201e\u010das pro sebe\u201c socializac\u00ed s p\u0159\u00e1teli nebo se zapojujte do osobn\u00edch z\u00e1jm\u016f. Vy i v\u00e1\u0161 partner budete r\u00e1di, kdy\u017e budete ur\u010dit\u00e9 v\u011bci d\u011blat sami. To tak\u00e9 osvobod\u00ed va\u0161eho partnera od nutnosti uspokojovat v\u0161echna va\u0161e p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed a pot\u0159eby na \u00fakor jejich vlastn\u00edch. Dovolte si p\u0159ipustit, \u017ee nikdo nem\u016f\u017ee uspokojit v\u0161echny va\u0161e pot\u0159eby.<\/p>\n

Odpustit a j\u00edt d\u00e1l<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Vy a va\u0161e man\u017eelstv\u00ed velmi prosp\u011bjete, pokud budete schopni p\u0159ijmout chyby sv\u00e9ho partnera, bez ohledu na to, jak velk\u00e9 nebo mal\u00e9 jsou. Odpustit a j\u00edt d\u00e1l v\u00e1m a va\u0161emu man\u017eelovi pom\u016f\u017ee p\u0159ekonat jak\u00e9koli p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocity hn\u011bvu, z\u00e1\u0161ti a sladkosti, kter\u00e9 se ve v\u00e1s mohly nahromadit. Jak se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: "Dr\u017eet nen\u00e1vist je jako p\u00edt jed a o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee ten druh\u00fd zem\u0159e." V z\u00e1jmu sv\u011btl\u00e9 budoucnosti se zbavte drobn\u00fdch bitev a drobn\u00fdch probl\u00e9m\u016f. Kdy\u017e se na situaci d\u00edv\u00e1te z pohledu partnera s empati\u00ed a porozum\u011bn\u00edm, odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed nen\u00ed obt\u00ed\u017en\u00fd \u00fakol.<\/p>\n

P\u0159ijm\u011bte v\u00edce z toho, co m\u00e1te<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Mark Twain jednou \u0159ekl: \u201eDok\u00e1\u017eu \u017e\u00edt dva m\u011bs\u00edce z p\u011bkn\u00e9 chv\u00e1ly. Komplimenty milence jsou jednoduchou metodou, jak uspokojit p\u0159irozenou touhu partnera po pozornosti. Kompliment vs. lichotka je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd rozd\u00edl, kter\u00fd je t\u0159eba m\u00edt na pam\u011bti. Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby va\u0161e komplimenty vyzn\u011bly jako skute\u010dn\u00e9 a ne vynucen\u00e9. Po chv\u00edli si v\u0161imnete, \u017ee komplimenty maj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edzniv\u00fd vliv na va\u0161e man\u017eelstv\u00ed. Tak\u017ee, pokud chcete zlep\u0161it sv\u016fj vztah, za\u010dn\u011bte t\u00edm, \u017ee budete sv\u00e9ho partnera chv\u00e1lit a chv\u00e1lit!<\/p>\n

Uznejte sv\u00e9 chyby<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Proto\u017ee nikdo nen\u00ed dokonal\u00fd od narozen\u00ed, je \u010das sundat sv\u016fj hlavn\u00ed olt\u00e1\u0159 a p\u0159iznat, \u017ee i vy jste lid\u00e9. \u010casto se vyh\u00fdb\u00e1me uzn\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00fdch chyb a m\u00edsto toho je racionalizujeme obvi\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00edm druh\u00fdch. Vy a v\u00e1\u0161 man\u017eel ztrat\u00edte d\u016fv\u011bru, pokud budete pokra\u010dovat v tomto typu chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Abyste tomu zabr\u00e1nili, v\u017edy p\u0159evezm\u011bte odpov\u011bdnost za sv\u00e9 chyby a okam\u017eit\u011b se omluvte. Nem\u016f\u017eete se pou\u010dit ze sv\u00fdch chyb, pokud je neuzn\u00e1te a pak p\u0159ed nimi v budoucnu p\u0159imhou\u0159\u00edte o\u010di.<\/p>\n

Dokud se v\u011bdom\u011b nesna\u017e\u00edte za\u010dlenit tyto n\u00e1vyky do sv\u00e9 ka\u017edodenn\u00ed rutiny, nebudete m\u00edt prosp\u011bch z \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 rady.<\/p>\n

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