{"id":2826,"date":"2022-07-07T10:54:13","date_gmt":"2022-07-07T10:54:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/?p=2826"},"modified":"2023-04-03T18:10:36","modified_gmt":"2023-04-03T12:40:36","slug":"the-right-to-anger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/the-right-to-anger\/","title":{"rendered":"Pr\u00e1vo na hn\u011bv"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Jednoho dne v\u011bdec v tajn\u00e9 laborato\u0159i objev\u00ed zp\u016fsob, jak vyu\u017e\u00edt potla\u010dovan\u00fd vztek \u017een a vyu\u017e\u00edt jej jako zdroj energie. Pak m\u016f\u017eeme str\u00e1vit dal\u0161\u00ed dv\u011b stolet\u00ed k\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00edm palce a nestarat se o nalezen\u00ed udr\u017eiteln\u00e9ho zdroje energie. Proto\u017ee jsme v\u0161ichni na\u0161tvan\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Jsou pro to lep\u0161\u00ed d\u016fvody. \u017deny dost\u00e1vaj\u00ed na cel\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b o 5% a\u017e 37% v\u00edce ne\u017e mu\u017ei a p\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b 35% \u017een bylo v ur\u010dit\u00e9 f\u00e1zi sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota fyzicky nebo sexu\u00e1ln\u011b zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1no. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b jsem to hledal na Googlu. Zapome\u0148te na internet a v\u0161echny kybernetick\u00e9 \u00fatoky, kter\u00e9 dost\u00e1v\u00e1me od troll\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee m\u00edsto \u017eeny je pod roub\u00edkem,<\/p>\n

Vyjad\u0159uje se? Ano, pane, je to tak. Domn\u00edv\u00e1m se, \u017ee d\u016fvodem je to, \u017ee se boj\u00edme, \u017ee budeme ozna\u010deni jako nedamy. V \u0161ovinisty tak milovan\u00e9m stereotypu Nagging Woman. Je zak\u00e1zan\u00e1 pro ka\u017ed\u00e9ho. Je v\u0161emi opovrhov\u00e1na. A kdo m\u016f\u017ee pop\u0159\u00edt d\u016fle\u017eitost toho, b\u00fdt obl\u00edben\u00fd?<\/p>\n

M\u00edt stejn\u00fd syst\u00e9m v\u00edry, kter\u00e9ho jsme se stali ob\u011bt\u00ed, je kritick\u00e9. V\u00edra, kter\u00e1 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 mlad\u00fdm \u017een\u00e1m, aby zm\u00edrnily sv\u00e9 emoce a p\u0159estaly se chovat jako kr\u00e1lovny dramatu. \u017ee se \u010dlov\u011bk m\u016f\u017ee zeptat na\u0161tvan\u00e9 \u017eeny, zda m\u00e1 menstruaci, ani\u017e by se j\u00ed n\u011bkdo posm\u00edval. Zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee \u017eeny se mohou zlobit pouze tehdy, kdy\u017e jsou jejich hormony v nerovnov\u00e1ze.<\/p>\n

Klademe v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed d\u016fraz na to, abychom byli milov\u00e1ni, p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1ni a schvalov\u00e1ni, ne\u017e na na\u0161i du\u0161evn\u00ed pohodu.<\/p>\n

Nicm\u00e9n\u011b, vid\u00edte, v\u0161echna ta frustrace a z\u00e1\u0161\u0165, kterou v sob\u011b uchov\u00e1v\u00e1me? P\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b natr\u00e1venou potravu. Vych\u00e1z\u00ed to tak \u010di onak. A\u0165 u\u017e to byl prudk\u00fd n\u00e1r\u016fst na\u0161eho krevn\u00edho tlaku, nespavost nebo dokonce sn\u011bzen\u00ed cel\u00e9 bonboni\u00e9ry, sl\u00edbili jsme si, \u017ee si \u017e\u00e1dnou z t\u011bchto v\u011bc\u00ed nebudeme dop\u0159\u00e1vat. Pokud je doru\u010dena n\u011bkomu, kdo si to nezaslou\u017e\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edmo zra\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed. D\u011btsk\u00fd k\u0159ik. V\u011brn\u00fd spole\u010dn\u00edk. Ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 ch\u016fva. Pros\u00edm, nep\u0159edst\u00edrej, \u017ee se to nikdy nestane.<\/p>\n

Pak znovu, co m\u00e1 d\u00edvka d\u011blat, kdy\u017e je zu\u0159iv\u00e1? Co kdybyste vypustili sv\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho Hulka a za\u010dali \u0159\u00e1dit, ni\u010dit budovy a vyko\u0159e\u0148ovat po\u017e\u00e1rn\u00ed hydranty? Pl\u00e1n B, jak to bylo. Ne\u017e budete moci vyj\u00e1d\u0159it sv\u016fj hn\u011bv zrale, mus\u00edte nejprve uznat sv\u016fj hn\u011bv (u\u017e \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 slzy vzteku), identifikovat zdroj sv\u00e9ho hn\u011bvu (u\u017e \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 ob\u011btn\u00ed ber\u00e1nky) a pak sv\u016fj hn\u011bv vyj\u00e1d\u0159it. Pokud nem\u016f\u017eete vydr\u017eet pomy\u0161len\u00ed na b\u011bh, pak ude\u0159te do pol\u0161t\u00e1\u0159e. Nebo, proto\u017ee ani jedna z t\u011bchto mo\u017enost\u00ed nen\u00ed uprost\u0159ed zasedac\u00ed m\u00edstnosti pln\u00e9 \u0159editel\u016f provediteln\u00e1, m\u016f\u017eete se zhluboka nadechnout a \u0159\u00edct v\u0161em, aby v\u00e1s p\u0159estali tolik vyru\u0161ovat.<\/p>\n

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Kdy\u017e kone\u010dn\u011b promluv\u00edte, uv\u011bdom\u00edte si, \u017ee na\u0161tvan\u00e1 \u017eena je impozantn\u00ed protivn\u00edk. Je sly\u0161et vol\u00e1n\u00ed rozzloben\u00fdch \u017een o pozornost. Dok\u00e1\u017eou toho hodn\u011b. Sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u017e objektivizovat rozhn\u011bvan\u00e9 mlad\u00e9 mu\u017ee bychom m\u011bli p\u0159ijmout rozzloben\u011bj\u0161\u00ed mlad\u00e9 \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 \u017eij\u00ed uvnit\u0159 ka\u017ed\u00e9ho z n\u00e1s. Nezapome\u0148te na radu Dylana Thomase: \u201eNecho\u010fte do t\u00e9 temn\u00e9 noci m\u00edrn\u00ed. Kdy\u017e slunce zapadne, na tomto sv\u011bt\u011b u\u017e nebude \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 sv\u011btlo<\/p>\n

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