{"id":2831,"date":"2022-07-07T12:05:23","date_gmt":"2022-07-07T12:05:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/?p=2831"},"modified":"2023-04-03T18:10:36","modified_gmt":"2023-04-03T12:40:36","slug":"6-life-lessons-for-every-girl-from-a-big-sister","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/6-life-lessons-for-every-girl-from-a-big-sister\/","title":{"rendered":"6 \u017eivotn\u00edch lekc\u00ed pro ka\u017edou d\u00edvku od velk\u00e9 sestry"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Ne ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 to \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, \u017ee m\u00e1 velkou sestru.<\/p>\n

Pokud je v\u00e1\u0161 vztah s va\u0161\u00ed star\u0161\u00ed sestrou st\u00e1le charakterizov\u00e1n sp\u00ed\u0161e nen\u00e1vist\u00ed ne\u017e l\u00e1skou, dok\u00e1\u017eu si p\u0159edstavit, \u017ee ve v\u00e1s s\u00edl\u00ed \u0159ev protest\u016f. M\u00e1te m\u00e9 sympatie. Krom\u011b toho, \u017ee nikdy nem\u011bla star\u0161\u00ed sestru, nejhor\u0161\u00edm ne\u0161t\u011bst\u00edm, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee d\u00edvku potkat, je m\u00edt sestru, kter\u00e1 nikdy nevyroste do jej\u00edho potenci\u00e1lu. Pozice Velk\u00e9 sestry m\u00e1 toti\u017e velk\u00fd potenci\u00e1l k dobru.<\/p>\n

Ani\u017e by to cizinci tu\u0161ili, v\u00e1\u0161 sourozenec z d\u011btstv\u00ed, kter\u00fd byl pouze zdrojem ur\u00e1\u017eek a ur\u00e1\u017eek, za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 plnit sv\u016fj \u00fa\u010del. Odhozen\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed ustupuje ji\u017e hotov\u00fdm projekt\u016fm, spole\u010dn\u00e9mu \u0161atn\u00edku a cheat sheetu ke v\u0161emu od \u0161koln\u00edch prac\u00ed p\u0159es chlapce a\u017e po \u017eivot samotn\u00fd. Kdy\u017e ud\u011bl\u00e1te kroky do dosp\u011blosti, stane se mentorkou a nejlep\u0161\u00ed kamar\u00e1dkou. N\u011bkoho, kdo \u0161el a prozkoumal cestu p\u0159ed v\u00e1mi, tak\u017ee se nemus\u00edte u\u010dit v\u011bci slo\u017eit\u011b.<\/p>\n

Pokud m\u00e1te takovou dobrou Velkou sestru, pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b na ni pr\u00e1v\u011b te\u010f s l\u00e1skou mysl\u00edte. Pokud ne, nezlobte se. V\u017edy m\u016f\u017eete z\u00edskat skv\u011bl\u00e9 tipy do \u017eivota od n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho!<\/p>\n

Nikdy ne\u0159\u00edkejte \u201eano\u201c, kdy\u017e opravdu chcete \u0159\u00edct \u201ene\u201c.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Abyste v \u017eivot\u011b usp\u011bli, mus\u00edte b\u00fdt schopni st\u00e1t si za sebou a za to, v co v\u011b\u0159\u00edte, i kdy\u017e to ostatn\u00ed roz\u010diluje nebo ur\u00e1\u017e\u00ed. Zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b kdy\u017e jsou \u201elid\u00e9\u201c va\u0161imi p\u0159\u00e1teli. Jen si p\u0159ipome\u0148te, kdy\u017e k takov\u00e9mu konfliktu dojde, \u017ee\u00a0ty jsi<\/em>\u00a0ne<\/em>\u00a0odpov\u011bdn\u00fd<\/em>\u00a0pro<\/em>\u00a0jejich<\/em>\u00a0\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, jsi zodpov\u011bdn\u00fd za sv\u00e9<\/em>. To, \u017ee budete neust\u00e1le podl\u00e9hat rozhodnut\u00edm a n\u00e1zor\u016fm jin\u00fdch lid\u00ed, v\u00e1s u\u010din\u00ed rozho\u0159\u010den\u00fdm a trochu podstr\u010den\u00fdm. M\u016f\u017eete j\u00edt s n\u00e1mi, kdy\u017e se o to p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nestar\u00e1te, ale kdy\u017e v\u00e1m na tom z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, ujist\u011bte se, \u017ee v\u00e1s sly\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Nenastupujte do auta s opil\u00fdm \u0159idi\u010dem. V\u016fbec<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Bez ohledu na to, kdo jsou a jak moc na tom trvaj\u00ed a jak moc jim d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujete. A\u0165 u\u017e si dali jeden nebo deset drink\u016f, tax\u00edk je bezpe\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e n\u011bkdo, kdo m\u00e1 za volantem kompromisn\u00ed \u00fasudek. Pokud si mysl\u00edte, \u017ee je to trochu drsn\u00e9, v\u011bzte toto: pokud opil\u00fd \u0159idi\u010d, s n\u00edm\u017e jste, m\u011bl nehodu, m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt tak\u00e9 obvin\u011bni (za nav\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed).<\/p>\n

Kdy\u017e cestujete sami pozd\u011b v noci, nikdy nejezd\u011bte zkratkou nebo silnic\u00ed, na kter\u00e9 nechcete uv\u00edznout. Bez ohledu na to, zda jedete autem nebo tax\u00edkem, porucha v \u00fatr\u017ekovit\u00e9 \u010dtvrti je situace, kdy nechcete Dr\u017ete se hlavn\u00edch silnic, nejl\u00e9pe t\u011bch, kde hl\u00eddkuj\u00ed policist\u00e9.<\/p>\n

D\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujte sv\u00fdm instinkt\u016fm v\u00edce ne\u017e lidem<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Zd\u00e1n\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee klamat a mnoho dob\u0159e oble\u010den\u00fdch, zdvo\u0159il\u00fdch a okouzluj\u00edc\u00edch lid\u00ed v\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee napadnout. Kdykoli se v\u00e1\u0161 vnit\u0159n\u00ed radar vypne, v\u011b\u0159te mu, i kdy\u017e si nejste jisti, pro\u010d p\u00edp\u00e1.<\/p>\n

V\u017edy dejte n\u011bkomu v\u011bd\u011bt, kde se nach\u00e1z\u00edte<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Nen\u00ed to jen pro p\u0159\u00edpad, \u017ee v\u00e1s \u201evezmou\u201c a Liam Neeson v\u00e1s bude muset zachr\u00e1nit. Je to u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 telefon vypadne a lid\u00e9 v\u00e1s pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed nal\u00e9hav\u011b kontaktovat. Za t\u00edmto \u00fa\u010delem je tak\u00e9 dobr\u00e9 m\u00edt v telefonu aktivn\u00ed sledov\u00e1n\u00ed, kdy\u017e jste sami. Informace o sledov\u00e1n\u00ed nemus\u00edte sd\u00edlet se v\u0161emi; prost\u011b to dejte n\u011bkomu, komu d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujete, \u017ee v\u00e1s nebude v \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b pron\u00e1sledovat \u2013 stra\u0161ideln\u00e9mu nebo znepokojen\u00e9mu \u2013 n\u011bkomu, jako je va\u0161e sestra nebo v\u00e1\u0161 nejlep\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtel. To se tak\u00e9 bude hodit, pokud se v\u00e1\u0161 telefon n\u011bkdy ztrat\u00ed nebo ukradne, proto\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd je v ur\u010dit\u00e9 f\u00e1zi \u017eivota (nejste sami!).<\/p>\n

Um\u00edst\u011bte sv\u016fj nouzov\u00fd kontakt na obrazovku uzam\u010den\u00ed telefonu<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Tento jednoduch\u00fd krok v\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee pomoci, pokud se v\u00e1m n\u011bkdy stane nehoda nebo budete m\u00edt zdravotn\u00ed pohotovost. Sta\u010d\u00ed v nastaven\u00ed telefonu vyhledat mo\u017enost p\u0159izp\u016fsoben\u00ed zamykac\u00ed obrazovky.<\/p>\n

Je pravd\u011bpodobn\u00e9, \u017ee mnoh\u00e9 z t\u011bchto \u017eivotn\u00edch hack\u016f jsou v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 u\u017e zn\u00e1te, podez\u0159\u00edv\u00e1te je nebo jste je u\u017e sly\u0161eli. Pot\u0159eboval jsi jen n\u011bjak\u00e9 uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, abys je bral v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. No, k tomu jsou velk\u00e9 sestry.<\/p>\n

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