{"id":2996,"date":"2022-07-08T12:41:21","date_gmt":"2022-07-08T12:41:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/?p=2996"},"modified":"2023-04-03T18:10:33","modified_gmt":"2023-04-03T12:40:33","slug":"the-answer-to-that-eternal-question-when-are-you-having-a-baby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/the-answer-to-that-eternal-question-when-are-you-having-a-baby\/","title":{"rendered":"Odpov\u011b\u010f na tuto v\u011b\u010dnou ot\u00e1zku! Kdy bude\u0161 m\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u201eNarodila jsem spoustu v\u011bc\u00ed a m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee jsem spoustu v\u011bc\u00ed zplodila, a nev\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee je f\u00e9r vkl\u00e1dat tato o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed na ostatn\u00ed,\u201c prohl\u00e1sila Jennifer Aniston, hollywoodsk\u00e1 celebrita a n\u00e1hodn\u00e1 feministick\u00e1 filozofka. . Nic nemluv\u00ed hlasit\u011bji ne\u017e tato prohl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed uprost\u0159ed \u0161\u00edlen\u00e9 fixace na\u0161\u00ed spole\u010dnosti na man\u017eelstv\u00ed a tik\u00e1n\u00ed biologick\u00fdch hodin.<\/p>\n

Lid\u00e9 zven\u010d\u00ed by si mohli myslet, \u017ee jsem star\u00e1 panna, je j\u00ed n\u011bco p\u0159es dvacet, a p\u0159esn\u011b tak m\u011b vid\u00ed jako svobodnou \u017eenu. Strach a \u00fazkost jsou evidentn\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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Nicm\u00e9n\u011b, co kdy\u017e dostanu sv\u00e9 mate\u0159sk\u00e9 vzru\u0161en\u00ed z toho, \u017ee budu \u017e\u00edt sv\u016fj \u017eivot tak, jak je nyn\u00ed? Co kdy\u017e p\u0159i pohledu na mou ko\u010dku, kter\u00e1 d\u0159\u00edm\u00e1 v ohybu m\u00e9ho b\u0159icha, mi v mozku tryskaj\u00ed chemik\u00e1lie? Ka\u017ed\u00e1 pracuj\u00edc\u00ed matka se c\u00edt\u00ed provinile, kdy\u017e se vrac\u00ed dom\u016f pozd\u011b z pr\u00e1ce a vrh\u00e1 na sv\u00e9 vy\u010derpan\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b ospal\u00fd pohrdav\u00fd pohled. Nen\u00ed nic neobvykl\u00e9ho, \u017ee jsem stejn\u011b jako vy str\u00e1vil celou noc o\u0161et\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00edm nemocn\u00e9ho psa, ukl\u00edzen\u00edm zvratk\u016f a mazlen\u00edm s jeho t\u0159esouc\u00edm se t\u011blem. P\u0159edpokl\u00e1dejme, \u017ee jsem na sv\u016fj mangovn\u00edk tak hrd\u00fd, jako by matka vid\u011bla sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b vystupovat na p\u00f3diu. Aby \u010dlov\u011bk mohl b\u00fdt matkou, nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt matkou v\u017edy.<\/p>\n

Pokud jde o \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 necht\u011bj\u00ed m\u00edt d\u011bti, je t\u0159eba zv\u00e1\u017eit \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m. "Ne, to si neud\u011bl\u00e1m," poznamen\u00e1vaj\u00ed, kdy\u017e proch\u00e1zej\u00ed kolem s\u00e1l\u016f pln\u00fdch na\u0159\u00edkaj\u00edc\u00edch nemluv\u0148at. M\u011bli by b\u00fdt schopni u\u010dinit takov\u00e9 rozhodnut\u00ed. Neexistuje zp\u016fsob, jak mohou j\u00edt nakupovat j\u00eddlo, ani\u017e by se jich p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00e1 brig\u00e1da tety ze sousedstv\u00ed zeptala na jejich \u00fadajn\u011b neortodoxn\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00ed styl.<\/p>\n

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Komu a kdy maj\u00ed pr\u00e1vo vysv\u011btlovat, \u017ee to nen\u00ed jejich v\u011bc, sv\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 ustaran\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00fdm, kamar\u00e1dk\u00e1m z maminky blogerky, kritick\u00e9 asistentce gynekologa a ciz\u00edm lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed to mysl\u00ed dob\u0159e? Nen\u00ed na diskuzi, pokud \u017eena nem\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt d\u011bti, nechce d\u011bti nebo se domn\u00edv\u00e1, \u017ee plenky jsou vyhozen\u00e9 pen\u00edze.<\/p>\n

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"\u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 \u017eena by nem\u011bla ospravedl\u0148ovat svou neplodnost," \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Dame Helen Mirren. To, co d\u011bl\u00e1te, je zcela mimo dosah kohokoli jin\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n

Pomalu se bo\u0159\u00ed tradi\u010dn\u00ed m\u00fdtus, \u017ee plozen\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed dokon\u010duje \u017eivot \u017eeny. N\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eeny si za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed uv\u011bdomovat, \u017ee napln\u011bn\u00ed, pot\u011b\u0161en\u00ed a spokojenost mohou naj\u00edt mimo bubl\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017evatl\u00e1n\u00ed a bubl\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte.<\/p>\n

A\u017e si dom\u016f p\u0159ivedeme pejska, douf\u00e1m, \u017ee n\u00e1m na\u0161i p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 v budoucnu dop\u0159ej\u00ed miminko, i kdy\u017e je nere\u00e1ln\u00e9 o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee se spole\u010dnost p\u0159es noc stane progresivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“I’ve born a lot of things and feel like I’ve mothered a lot of things, and I don’t believe it’s fair to put that expectation on others,” Jennifer Aniston, the Hollywood celebrity and accidental feminist philosopher, reportedly declared. Nothing speaks louder than these statements amid our society’s insane fixation on marriage and the ticking of […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2997,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[117],"tags":[152],"class_list":["post-2996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship","tag-relationship-love"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2996","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2996"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2996\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22307,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2996\/revisions\/22307"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2997"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}