{"id":3166,"date":"2022-07-10T04:42:22","date_gmt":"2022-07-10T04:42:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/?p=3166"},"modified":"2023-04-03T18:10:29","modified_gmt":"2023-04-03T12:40:29","slug":"post-marital-depression-a-real-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/post-marital-depression-a-real-thing\/","title":{"rendered":"Postman\u017eelsk\u00e1 deprese \u2013 skute\u010dn\u00e1 v\u011bc!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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HAHAHAHA, TO JSOU JEN SLZY RADOSTI, HLOUP\u00c9<\/strong><\/p>\n

Jak stru\u010dn\u011b \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 epizoda F*R*I*E*N*D*S, \u017eeny mluv\u00ed. My ano. Mnoho. Ale jsou v\u011bci, o kter\u00fdch se nebav\u00edme. Dokonce ani s t\u011bmi, se kter\u00fdmi sd\u00edl\u00edme ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd detail na\u0161eho \u017eivota. V\u011bci jako poman\u017eelsk\u00e1 deprese, nap\u0159\u00edklad.<\/p>\n

Nikdy jsem o tom nesly\u0161el? J\u00e1 taky ne, dokud jsem si t\u00edm s\u00e1m nepro\u0161el. Je to ale dost b\u011b\u017en\u00e9. Podle odborn\u00edk\u016f na vztahy se to st\u00e1v\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00e9 des\u00e1t\u00e9 nev\u011bst\u011b. Pro\u010d? Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee d\u016fvody jsou dva. Za prv\u00e9, \u010dteme, opakujeme a v\u011b\u0159\u00edme poh\u00e1dk\u00e1m a romanc\u00edm, kde se hezk\u00fd princ o\u017een\u00ed s kr\u00e1snou princeznou, a \u017eij\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u011b a\u017e do smrti a maj\u00ed d\u011bti a... konec. A za druh\u00e9, \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me sob\u011b i ostatn\u00edm, \u017ee n\u00e1\u0161 svatebn\u00ed den je nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edm dnem na\u0161eho \u017eivota.<\/p>\n

V\u011b\u0159it jedn\u00e9 z t\u011bchto v\u011bc\u00ed je jen p\u0159ipravit se na zklam\u00e1n\u00ed. A posvatebn\u00ed deprese. Zde je d\u016fvod.<\/p>\n

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\u0160\u00edlenstv\u00ed vedouc\u00ed k va\u0161emu svatebn\u00edmu dni je radostn\u00e9 a chaotick\u00e9, opar vzor\u016f kalhot, nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed a\u00a0svatba<\/em>\u00a0seznamy skladeb. Je to z\u00e1bava. P\u0159ipravujete se na den, kdy kone\u010dn\u011b p\u0159ejdete od sle\u010dny k sle\u010dn\u011b. Vzru\u0161en\u00ed stoup\u00e1 a stoup\u00e1 a stoup\u00e1 a pak... se probud\u00edte den po svatb\u011b a v\u0161echno je pry\u010d. Nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed den ve va\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b p\u0159i\u0161el a ode\u0161el a po zbytek va\u0161eho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho \u017eivota v\u00e1m zbylo... co?<\/p>\n

Nepo\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9 kousky.<\/p>\n

Ru\u010dn\u00edky na posteli. Rann\u00ed dech. Prask\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ikr\u00fdvky. Chr\u00e1p\u00e1n\u00ed. Pomal\u00e9 uv\u011bdomov\u00e1n\u00ed si toho, \u017ee \u010dlov\u011bk, se kter\u00fdm jste se rozhodli str\u00e1vit sv\u016fj \u017eivot, m\u00e1 tis\u00edce drobn\u00fdch vt\u00edpk\u016f, o kter\u00fdch jste nic nev\u011bd\u011bli. Tento man\u017eelsk\u00fd \u017eivot p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed s vlastn\u00ed sadou prac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 nikde ve svatebn\u00edm \u010dasopise nejsou. \u017de se s t\u00edm v\u0161\u00edm budete muset vyrovnat, jeden argument za druh\u00fdm.<\/p>\n

Va\u0161e svatba se stane p\u00e1rty, d\u00e1my. Va\u0161e man\u017eelstv\u00ed, \u00faklid pot\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Nemaluji hezk\u00fd obr\u00e1zek, \u017ee? Promi\u0148te. Ale skute\u010dn\u00e9 man\u017eelstv\u00ed nen\u00ed hezk\u00e9. Je to t\u011b\u017ek\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce. To nen\u00ed konec. Je to za\u010d\u00e1tek nau\u010dit se milovat n\u011bkoho, o kom jste si mysleli, \u017ee u\u017e ho milujete. Usm\u00ed\u0159it se s jejich v\u00fdst\u0159ednostmi, i kdy\u017e se oni nau\u010d\u00ed usm\u00ed\u0159it s t\u011bmi va\u0161imi. O zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, jak jste odli\u0161n\u00ed, a nalezen\u00ed zp\u016fsobu, jak se navzdory tomu p\u0159ibl\u00ed\u017eit. Uva\u017eovat o rozvodu kv\u016fli mali\u010dkostem a p\u0159ipom\u00ednat si, \u017ee jste si vzali dobr\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka a \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 vztah m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt ty pono\u017eky na podlaze.<\/p>\n

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Man\u017eelstv\u00ed nen\u00ed poh\u00e1dka, kter\u00e1 kon\u010d\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u011b a\u017e do smrti. Je to pozv\u00e1nka na celo\u017eivotn\u00ed proj\u00ed\u017e\u010fku magie a \u0161\u00edlenstv\u00ed, kde ka\u017ed\u00fd den odpracujete sv\u016fj zadek a vytvo\u0159\u00edte \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd konec. P\u0159ijm\u011bte to a nebudete p\u0159ekvapeni, kdy\u017e v\u00e1s \u201eobdob\u00ed l\u00edb\u00e1nek\u201c va\u0161eho prvn\u00edho roku nech\u00e1 ohromeni. P\u0159ijm\u011bte to a nenechte si uj\u00edt sv\u011btlo sv\u00ed\u010dek a r\u016f\u017e\u00ed, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m ty smysln\u00e9 romance slibovaly. M\u00edsto toho, kdy\u017e v\u00e1m nab\u00eddne, \u017ee ud\u011bl\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161 pod\u00edl na dom\u00e1c\u00edch prac\u00edch, zat\u00edmco vy budete dole s dobov\u00fdmi k\u0159e\u010demi, uvid\u00edte, co to je. Akt l\u00e1sky. A znamen\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho man\u017eelstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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HAHAHAHA, THESE ARE JUST TEARS OF JOY, SILLY As an episode of F*R*I*E*N*D*S so succinctly puts it, women talk. We do. A lot. But there are things we don\u2019t talk about. Not even with those with whom we share every little detail of our lives. Things like post-marital depression, for instance. Never heard of it? […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3169,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[110,101,117,115],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3166","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-health-wellness","category-lifestyle","category-relationship","category-relationship-love"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3166","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3166"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3166\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22289,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3166\/revisions\/22289"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3169"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3166"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3166"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3166"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}