{"id":3312,"date":"2022-07-12T07:44:44","date_gmt":"2022-07-12T07:44:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/?p=3312"},"modified":"2023-04-03T18:10:24","modified_gmt":"2023-04-03T12:40:24","slug":"non-negotiables-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/non-negotiables-in-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Neobchodovateln\u00e9 ve vztahu"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Nevyjedn\u00e1vateln\u00e9 v ka\u017ed\u00e9m vztahu \/ M\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161 vztah VELKOU 5?<\/strong><\/p>\n

"D\u011bl\u00e1te mi hladinu dopaminu \u00fapln\u011b hloupou."<\/p>\n

Pokud jste n\u011bkdy byli zamilovan\u00ed, pak v\u00edte, jak\u00e9 to je. A pokud ne, dob\u0159e, to nejlep\u0161\u00ed je st\u00e1le p\u0159ed v\u00e1mi.<\/p>\n

Zamilovanost je v\u0161ak pro vztah, co je prolog pro knihu. Mo\u017en\u00e1 v\u00e1m to pom\u016f\u017ee rozhodnout se, zda kniha stoj\u00ed za v\u00e1\u0161 \u010das, ale nen\u00ed to cel\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. To se uk\u00e1\u017ee, kdy\u017e spolu tr\u00e1v\u00edte v\u00edce a v\u00edce \u010dasu. Jak se to stane, spousta kudrlinek se za\u010dne vytr\u00e1cet a skute\u010dn\u00e1 dynamika vztahu se projev\u00ed. N\u011bkdy je dynamika p\u0159esn\u011b to, co jste v\u017edy cht\u011bli. Pokud je to tak, zkontrolujte, zda jste ve filmu Disney. Pokud ne, v\u011bzte, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina vztah\u016f m\u00e1 probl\u00e9my. N\u011bkter\u00e9 jsou v\u011bci, se kter\u00fdmi byste si nem\u011bli p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 l\u00e1mat hlavu (jako d\u011brav\u00e9 kohoutky a \u0161patn\u00e9 \u00fa\u010desy), zat\u00edmco o jin\u00fdch se ned\u00e1 vyjedn\u00e1vat. Co\u017e znamen\u00e1, \u017ee pokud je nem\u016f\u017eete z\u00edskat do va\u0161eho vztahu, nepou\u0161t\u011bjte je, pus\u0165te jeho.<\/p>\n

V obchod\u011b je mnohem v\u00edce knih.<\/p>\n

Zde jsou v\u011bci, ve kter\u00fdch byste nem\u011bli d\u011blat kompromisy.<\/p>\n

Respekt<\/strong><\/p>\n

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To je prvn\u00ed nesmlouvav\u00fd z n\u011bjak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu: jeho absence otev\u00edr\u00e1 dve\u0159e pro spoustu o\u0161kliv\u00fdch v\u011bc\u00ed pozd\u011bji. Pokud je ka\u017ed\u00fd v\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1zor p\u0159eru\u0161en nebo odm\u00edtnut, nelze jej p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 ocenit. A pokud va\u0161e n\u00e1zory nejsou oce\u0148ov\u00e1ny, \u017ee? Nespokojte se s n\u011bk\u00fdm, kdo ve v\u00e1s vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti. Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si lep\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

D\u016fv\u011bra<\/strong><\/p>\n

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To nen\u00ed jen o v\u011brnosti, je to o loajalit\u011b a poctivosti. M\u016f\u017eete sv\u00e9mu partnerovi v\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee v\u00e1m bude v\u017edy dr\u017eet z\u00e1da a neubl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed v\u00e1m? Nem\u00edt \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd vztah je lep\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e m\u00edt vztah postaven\u00fd na l\u017e\u00edch a manipulac\u00edch, a la Hra o tr\u016fny.<\/p>\n

Podp\u011bra, podpora<\/strong><\/p>\n

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A nejen nouzov\u00fd typ ve 3 hodiny r\u00e1no. Hran\u00ed na hrdinu je snadn\u00e9 a uspokojuj\u00edc\u00ed. P\u0159ijde v\u00e1m ale partner, aby v\u00e1m pomohl se st\u011bhov\u00e1n\u00edm pop\u00e1t\u00e9? P\u0159inesl ti pol\u00e9vku, kdy\u017e jsi m\u011bl ka\u0161el 'jsem-jist\u00fd-um\u00edr\u00e1m'? Poslouch\u00e1, kdy\u017e pl\u00e1c\u00e1\u0161 o sv\u00e9m psycho \u0161\u00e9fovi? M\u011bli byste cht\u00edt b\u00fdt spolu p\u0159es mal\u00e9 v\u011bci stejn\u011b jako ty velk\u00e9. St\u00e1vaj\u00ed se \u010dast\u011bji.<\/p>\n

N\u00e1klonnost<\/strong><\/p>\n

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M\u016f\u017ee to zn\u00edt jako pro lidi kolem 60 let, ale nen\u00ed. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, pokud to um\u00edte, milovat n\u011bkoho do t\u00e9 m\u00edry, \u017ee se budete idiotsky \u0161klebit, je ide\u00e1ln\u00ed, ale n\u00e1klonnost je naprost\u00e9 minimum. Z\u016fstat s n\u011bk\u00fdm, ke komu nec\u00edt\u00edte \u017e\u00e1dnou n\u011bhu, nen\u00ed dobr\u00fd n\u00e1pad. Na co se to pt\u00e1\u0161? Jsou to okam\u017eiky ve vztahu, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1s rozesm\u011bj\u00ed, kdykoli si na n\u011b vzpomenete. M\u00e1m to?<\/p>\n

Atrakce<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ano, toto je \u010d\u00edslo p\u011bt. V\u00edte, pro\u010d? Proto\u017ee je pravd\u011bpodobn\u00e9, \u017ee byste nebyli ve vztahu, kdyby tam nebylo. Pro p\u0159\u00edpad, \u017ee ano, zeptejte se sami sebe, pro\u010d chyb\u00ed a zda bez n\u011bj m\u016f\u017eete \u2013 nebo mus\u00edte \u2013 \u017e\u00edt. O\u017eiven\u00ed nebo za\u017eehnut\u00ed p\u0159ita\u017elivosti pro va\u0161eho partnera stoj\u00ed za n\u00e1mahu, a to z d\u016fvod\u016f, kter\u00e9 nejsou z\u0159ejm\u00e9 (mrknut\u00ed, mrknut\u00ed). V\u00e1\u0161e\u0148, nebo sp\u00ed\u0161e jej\u00ed nedostatek, se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t d\u016fvodem, pro\u010d podv\u00e1d\u00edte. A tou osobou nechcete b\u00fdt, \u017ee?<\/p>\n

Pokud t\u011bchto 5 ve sv\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch nem\u00e1te, sna\u017ete se je budovat \u2013 zaslou\u017e\u00edte si je m\u00edt v\u0161echny. Pokud je m\u00e1te ve sv\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch \u2013 s partnerem, p\u0159\u00e1teli, rodinou, co si jen vzpomenete \u2013 chce to oslavu. \u0160ampa\u0148sk\u00e9 ve va\u0161\u00ed sklenici a vd\u011b\u010dnost ve va\u0161ich o\u010d\u00edch laskav\u00e1.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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