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Hollywoodsk\u00e1 ikona a n\u00e1hodn\u00e1 feministick\u00e1 filozofka Jennifer Anistonov\u00e1 prohl\u00e1sila: \u201ePorodila jsem spoustu v\u011bc\u00ed a m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee jsem mnoho v\u011bc\u00ed mate\u0159ovala, a nemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee je f\u00e9r vyv\u00edjet na lidi takov\u00fd tlak.\u201c Jak pokra\u010duje \u0161\u00edlen\u00e1 spole\u010densk\u00e1 posedlost v\u010dasn\u00fdm s\u0148atkem a tikaj\u00edc\u00edmi biologick\u00fdmi hodinami, nic nezn\u00ed hlasit\u011bji ne\u017e tato slova.<\/p>\n
Pro pr\u016fm\u011brn\u00e9ho outsidera, svobodnou d\u00edvku, je mi n\u011bco m\u00e1lo p\u0159es dvacet, vypad\u00e1m jako \u017eena, kter\u00e1 se chyst\u00e1 minout lo\u010f. A panika je hmatateln\u00e1.<\/p>\n
Ale co kdy\u017e dostanu sv\u00e9 mate\u0159sk\u00e9 kopa\u010dky od \u017eivota, jak ho zn\u00e1m? Co kdy\u017e mi z toho vytrysknou chemik\u00e1lie v mozku p\u0159i pohledu na mou ko\u010dku sp\u00edc\u00ed v ohybu m\u00e9ho \u017ealudku? Co kdy\u017e budu trp\u011bt stejn\u00fdmi v\u00fd\u010ditkami viny jako ka\u017ed\u00e1 pracuj\u00edc\u00ed matka, kdy\u017e se vr\u00e1t\u00edm dom\u016f pozd\u011b z pr\u00e1ce a ona na m\u011b vrhne otr\u00e1ven\u00fd nesouhlasn\u00fd pohled. Co kdy\u017e jsem tak\u00e9 z\u016fstal vzh\u016fru celou noc, kojil nemocn\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bn\u011b, aby se uzdravil, \u010distil mu zvratky a dr\u017eel jeho hore\u010dn\u00e9 t\u011bl\u00ed\u010dko. Co kdy\u017e budu tak hrd\u00fd na mangovn\u00edk, kter\u00fd jsem p\u011bstoval hol\u00fdma rukama, jako se c\u00edt\u00ed matka, kdy\u017e sleduje sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b vystupovat na p\u00f3diu? Co kdy\u017e si uv\u011bdom\u00edm, \u017ee k tomu, abych byla matkou, nepot\u0159ebuji rodit.<\/p>\n
Pak je tu v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed ot\u00e1zka \u2013 co \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 necht\u011bj\u00ed b\u00fdt matkami? Ti, kte\u0159\u00ed se d\u00edvaj\u00ed na na\u0159\u00edkaj\u00edc\u00ed miminka v kinech a \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed: "Ne, to si neud\u011bl\u00e1m." Nemaj\u00ed pr\u00e1vo na takovou volbu? Nemohou o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee budou nakupovat, ani\u017e by je neobt\u011b\u017eovala p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00e1 sousedsk\u00e1 brig\u00e1da tety po\u017eaduj\u00edc\u00ed vysv\u011btlen\u00ed pro jejich \u00fadajn\u011b nekonven\u010dn\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00ed volby?<\/p>\n
Jak a kdy \u0159eknou sv\u00fdm zjevn\u011b znepokojen\u00fdm rodin\u00e1m, p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u00edm blogerk\u00e1m, gynekologov\u00fdm soudn\u00fdm asistent\u016fm a ciz\u00edm lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed to mysl\u00ed dob\u0159e, \u017ee to nen\u00ed jejich v\u011bc. O tom, zda \u017eena nem\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b, nechce ho nebo si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee plenky jsou jen zbyte\u010dn\u00fd v\u00fddaj, nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9 diskutovat.<\/p>\n
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Jak \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Dame Helen Mirren \u2013 \u201e\u017d\u00e1dn\u00e1 \u017eena by nem\u011bla vysv\u011btlovat svou bezd\u011btnost. Je to zkr\u00e1tka v\u011bc nikoho jin\u00e9ho."<\/p>\n
Star\u00e9 vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed o tom, \u017ee porodem je \u017eivot \u017eeny kompletn\u00ed, se pomalu obrac\u00ed na hlavu. P\u0159edstava, \u017ee \u017eeny mohou naj\u00edt sv\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, napln\u011bn\u00ed a uspokojen\u00ed v n\u011b\u010dem jin\u00e9m ne\u017e v chichot\u00e1n\u00ed, bl\u00e1bolen\u00ed a bubl\u00e1n\u00ed miminka, si pomalu raz\u00ed cestu dom\u016f.<\/p>\n
A i kdy\u017e je optimistick\u00e9 o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee se spole\u010dnost p\u0159es noc stane pokrokovou, douf\u00e1m, \u017ee v nadch\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00edch \u010dasech n\u00e1m na\u0161i p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 p\u0159iprav\u00ed miminko, kdy\u017e se rozhodneme p\u0159iv\u00e9st si dom\u016f \u0161t\u011bn\u011b.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hollywood icon and accidental feminist philosopher Jennifer Aniston famously said, \u201cI\u2019ve birthed a lot of things and feel like I\u2019ve mothered many things, and I don\u2019t think it\u2019s fair to put that pressure on people.\u201d As the crazy societal obsession with timely marriage and ticking biological clocks continues, nothing rings louder than these words. To […]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3974,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[115],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3416","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-love"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3416","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3416"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3416\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22263,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3416\/revisions\/22263"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3974"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3416"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3416"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3416"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}