{"id":3465,"date":"2022-07-21T05:47:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-21T05:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/?p=3465"},"modified":"2023-04-03T18:10:20","modified_gmt":"2023-04-03T12:40:20","slug":"how-to-handle-unwanted-romantic-advances-and-friendzone-politely","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/pt\/how-to-handle-unwanted-romantic-advances-and-friendzone-politely\/","title":{"rendered":"Como lidar com avan\u00e7os rom\u00e2nticos indesejados e Friendzone educadamente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3466 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" alt=\"Friendzone\" width=\"1110\" height=\"625\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1110px) 100vw, 1110px\" data-src=\"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/featured-28.webp\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/featured-28.webp 940w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/featured-28-300x169.webp 300w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/featured-28-768x432.webp 768w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/featured-28-600x337.webp 600w\"><\/p>\n<p>O macho da esp\u00e9cie \u00e9 uma coisa estranha, mas maravilhosa. Nem sempre o que os homens fazem ao seu redor faz sentido. Parte disso tem a ver com eles serem diferentes de quem somos, e o outro \u00e9 que seu fluxo sangu\u00edneo \u00e9 frequentemente priorizado para um determinado \u00f3rg\u00e3o, e n\u00e3o, n\u00e3o \u00e9 o c\u00e9rebro deles.<\/p>\n<p>Diante de tudo isso, voc\u00ea pode imaginar o caldeir\u00e3o ca\u00f3tico de uma bagun\u00e7a que seus c\u00e9rebros est\u00e3o no melhor dos tempos? Al\u00e9m do mais, isso s\u00f3 serve para mostrar por que voc\u00ea deve sempre fazer a coisa humana e impedi-los de ir para o seu destino. Agora que est\u00e1 claro, aqui est\u00e1 nossa opini\u00e3o sobre como voc\u00ea pode evitar engan\u00e1-lo. Portanto, deixe suas maquina\u00e7\u00f5es de femme fatale de lado por outro dia e continue lendo.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_46 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"ez-toc-toggle-icon-1\"><label for=\"item-69d78bcf0de25\" aria-label=\"Table of Content\"><span style=\"display: flex;align-items: center;width: 35px;height: 30px;justify-content: center;direction:ltr;\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseprofile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/label><input  type=\"checkbox\" id=\"item-69d78bcf0de25\"><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/pt\/how-to-handle-unwanted-romantic-advances-and-friendzone-politely\/#Flirt_alert_at_the_ready\" title=\"Alerta de flerte pronto\">Alerta de flerte pronto<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/pt\/how-to-handle-unwanted-romantic-advances-and-friendzone-politely\/#Be_resolute\" title=\"Seja resoluto\">Seja resoluto<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/pt\/how-to-handle-unwanted-romantic-advances-and-friendzone-politely\/#Exclude_exclusivity\" title=\"Excluir exclusividade\">Excluir exclusividade<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/pt\/how-to-handle-unwanted-romantic-advances-and-friendzone-politely\/#Introduce_the_B-word\" title=\"Apresente a palavra B\">Apresente a palavra B<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/pt\/how-to-handle-unwanted-romantic-advances-and-friendzone-politely\/#FAQs\" title=\"perguntas frequentes\">perguntas frequentes<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Flirt_alert_at_the_ready\"><\/span><strong>Alerta de flerte pronto<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3468 size-large lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" alt=\"flirt\" width=\"1024\" height=\"512\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" data-src=\"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/flirt-1024x512.webp\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/flirt-1024x512.webp 1024w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/flirt-300x150.webp 300w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/flirt-768x384.webp 768w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/flirt.webp 1080w\"><\/p>\n<p>Todos, (at\u00e9 voc\u00ea!), est\u00e3o sempre procurando por sinais \u2013 qualquer coisa em que possam se agarrar, ou mesmo pendurar o chap\u00e9u. Se ele gosta de voc\u00ea, isso pode explicar seu estado de esp\u00edrito atual. Agora, se voc\u00ea tem certeza de que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 para voc\u00ea, evite qualquer coisa que possa ser interpretada como flerte. Nesse sentido, n\u00e3o retribua ou pare\u00e7a retribuir qualquer a\u00e7\u00e3o de flerte doozy dele. Fique sempre firme e pronto para flertar, assim voc\u00ea far\u00e1 o poss\u00edvel para evitar o ac\u00famulo de qualquer esperan\u00e7a na cabe\u00e7a do amante.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Be_resolute\"><\/span><strong>Seja resoluto<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3469 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" alt=\"hotels\" width=\"880\" height=\"449\" sizes=\"(max-width: 880px) 100vw, 880px\" data-src=\"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/hotels.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/hotels.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/hotels-300x153.jpg 300w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/hotels-768x392.jpg 768w\"><\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00ea tem que admitir, ele, e de fato eles, s\u00e3o muito persistentes, n\u00e3o s\u00e3o? \u00c9 por isso que cabe a voc\u00ea estabelecer o registro direto desde o dia em que eles tentam fazer isso. Caso contr\u00e1rio, eles podem pegar o lado errado da vara. Seja resoluto, firme e severo com ele desde o in\u00edcio, pode parecer cruel, mas confie em n\u00f3s, isso os impedir\u00e1 de verificar <a href=\"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/f\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hotel desgosto<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Exclude_exclusivity\"><\/span><strong>Excluir exclusividade<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3470 size-large lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" alt=\"enjoying comapny\" width=\"880\" height=\"587\" sizes=\"(max-width: 880px) 100vw, 880px\" data-src=\"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/couple-family-traveling-together_1150-7772-1024x683.webp\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/couple-family-traveling-together_1150-7772-1024x683.webp 1024w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/couple-family-traveling-together_1150-7772-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/couple-family-traveling-together_1150-7772-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/couple-family-traveling-together_1150-7772-1536x1025.webp 1536w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/couple-family-traveling-together_1150-7772-1320x880.webp 1320w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/couple-family-traveling-together_1150-7772.webp 2000w\"><\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00ea pode apenas gostar da companhia dele, ou apenas gostar de sair com ele - e nada mais, nada mesmo. Dito isto, se voc\u00ea prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o especial a ele, encontr\u00e1-lo com frequ\u00eancia e encontr\u00e1-lo sozinho, ele pode interpretar que voc\u00ea quer algo mais do que mero<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Friend_zone\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> amizade<\/a>. Agora, voc\u00ea v\u00ea por que coisas como essa podem n\u00e3o ser a melhor ideia? Ent\u00e3o, saia em grupos a maior parte do tempo para matar essa no\u00e7\u00e3o!<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Introduce_the_B-word\"><\/span><strong>Apresente a palavra B<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3467 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" alt=\"world\" width=\"873\" height=\"491\" sizes=\"(max-width: 873px) 100vw, 873px\" data-src=\"https:\/\/hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Fahriye-Evcen-is-the-Most-Beautiful-Women-in-the-World-1280x720-1-990x557-1.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Fahriye-Evcen-is-the-Most-Beautiful-Women-in-the-World-1280x720-1-990x557-1.jpg 990w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Fahriye-Evcen-is-the-Most-Beautiful-Women-in-the-World-1280x720-1-990x557-1-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Fahriye-Evcen-is-the-Most-Beautiful-Women-in-the-World-1280x720-1-990x557-1-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/test2.hermagic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/Fahriye-Evcen-is-the-Most-Beautiful-Women-in-the-World-1280x720-1-990x557-1-600x337.jpg 600w\"><\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m de criar sua pr\u00f3pria adi\u00e7\u00e3o hil\u00e1ria ao sempre engra\u00e7ado repert\u00f3rio de piadas &#039;Eu tenho um namorado&#039;, deixe-o saber que &#039;aquele&#039; espa\u00e7o foi devidamente preenchido (mas apenas se voc\u00ea tiver um outro significativo). N\u00e3o deixe que seja um raio do nada, introduza-o casualmente e suavemente em uma conversa e fa\u00e7a isso desde o in\u00edcio para evitar qualquer constrangimento iminente.<\/p>\n<p>Outras coisas a evitar incluem deix\u00e1-lo pagar suas contas, aceitar presentes caros e at\u00e9 mesmo falar sobre os problemas do seu namorado. Fique longe dessas coisas e voc\u00ea pode muito bem ter feito amizade com ele para o resto da vida e, a longo prazo, todos ganham!<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQs\"><\/span>perguntas frequentes<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<div class=\"su-accordion su-u-trim\"><\/div><div class=\"su-spoiler su-spoiler-style-default su-spoiler-icon-plus su-spoiler-closed\" data-scroll-offset=\"0\" data-anchor-in-url=\"no\"><div class=\"su-spoiler-title\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\"><span class=\"su-spoiler-icon\"><\/span>Como voc\u00ea recusa educadamente os avan\u00e7os de algu\u00e9m?<\/div><div class=\"su-spoiler-content su-u-clearfix su-u-trim\">\n<div class=\"co8aDb\" role=\"heading\" aria-level=\"3\"><b>Use uma voz forte e clara e adapte sua resposta \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/div>\n<div class=\"RqBzHd\">\n<ol class=\"X5LH0c\">\n<li class=\"TrT0Xe\">Se voc\u00ea n\u00e3o se sentir particularmente amea\u00e7ado, tente: \u201cN\u00e3o, n\u00e3o estou interessado\u201d.<\/li>\n<li class=\"TrT0Xe\">Se houver outras pessoas por perto, tente algo como: \u201cN\u00e3o, me deixe em paz\u201d.<\/li>\n<li class=\"TrT0Xe\">Se voc\u00ea estiver muito desconfort\u00e1vel, tente: \u201cN\u00e3o, e eu agradeceria se voc\u00ea recuasse\u201d.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The male of the species is a weird but wonderful thing. Not always what men do around you makes sense. Some of this has to do with them being different from who we are, and the other being that their blood flow is often prioritized to a certain organ, and no, it\u2019s isn\u2019t their brains. 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